daddy is too busy

I'm a little (a switch at times). And my daddy is way to busy. 16 credit hours, works full time and has very strict parents. We will both be turning twenty soon. He lives two hours away. He will go days without a word to me but encourages I talk freely whenever about whatever via text. It just bugs me that he is too busy to respond ever. Like give me five minutes of your day, anytime, I don't care I just need your attention. But I don't want to be up his ass because I don't want to make him crabby. I'm his first little. He treats me like a queen when he can. I just wish daddy had more time 😿