36 weeks down 4 more to go!! Mother in law told me it would be my fault if the baby is born sleeping because my bumps "too small"

My mans mother told me my bumps small because I don't eat enough. I eat loads!! In fact maybe too much sometimes

She told me it would me my fault if my baby comes out with health problems or is born sleeping. Which upset me :(

I think it silly that she thinks bump size has anything too do with the weight of the baby. Ive had friends who gainned 5 stone with a baby born 5lbs 6oz and another who was tiny who birthed a baby nearly 10lbs

Every one keeps telling me my bumps small but every midwife appointment I measure spot on.

Lets see them 36 week bumps ladies