Sex is a normal term. Fuck if it's rough sex. Making love, well making love. Slow and steady.

I'm very romantically detached when it comes to sex, and I don't see it as that sort of intimate, so 'making love' is just too sappy for me. Fucking is what I usually say, but I'll call it sex if I have to be proper. 

I absolutely agree Tiana , couldn't say it no better then that . Agreed a trillion percent . Before I would saying fxxxxxx that's when I wasn't settle. At this point in my life I'd rather love making. I'm not into just being a quickie or fxxxxxx . I thank God for the Man I'm with today. I've learned so much knowledge of self . To be honest the women in my family were hoes . Growing up in a environment as such , you don't think nothing is wrong . I've came to realize my self worth is priceless. Each time I give thought to my past life. All I can do is smh . It wasn't a easy road for me , to many times he could have left me and my children, but he gave me the benefit of the doubt as people gave to him . My children deserve better . I deserve better. We deserve the best life offers .

Making love is much more. I find fucking rough. I like both.

I believe that "fucking" takes all the meaning out of how intimate it is. Fucking is what you do with someone in a one night stand. Sex and making love are things you do with someone you love and care about.

When I'm talking to him it's making love when I talk to people it's sex

All of them but if I had to pick one well I'll just vote