Having a baby?

Question

I'm 19 and in my sophomore year in college. My fiancé has graduated college and is now working. We really really want to have a baby but I know I have to finish college. I'm taking birth control and he doesn't know so now he feels as if his swimmers don't work. He blames himself for me not being able to get pregnant yet. I just don't think I can tell him I'm on the pill. Should I make myself and my fiancé happy and decide to get pregnant and forget about college where I'm unhappy and confused? Or should I just finish up these two years and think about kids later?

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You only have 2 more years girl , don't rush kids they'll come ..kick butt in these last two years and then start a family. I think finishing school would be the smartest option and I think you should tell him about the birth control. Don't go into a marriage built on secrets and lies..if he loves you he'll understand.. communication is KEY🔑

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Well dishonesty is never a way to start out a marriage you both need to sit down and talk you need to tell him you are on birth control just be honest and say you feel as if you are not ready for a child and you will revisit the children talk when you both feel ready how can you lie about being on birth control but want to get married marriage is about honesty communication and trust which is lacking right now

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If you feel confused about college, take some time and talk to your fiancé about the fact that you are. It might be good to take a break from trying to conceive and focus on school to see if it's really what you want for yourself. If it is, tell him that you want to finish. Focus on what you want and how you feel.

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He finished so why shouldnt you?

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Finish college. It feels like it'll take forever but it is temporary and will pass. Pregnancy is so worth the wait. And be honest with your boyfriend. He may not be thrilled that you haven't told him the truth, but he should understand that you need to finish school before you guys start a family.

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You need to be honestly with him. Tell him your on the pill and you want to wait. He should understand.

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Having a baby is NOT something to rush into. Finish college and start your career. You have plenty of time to begin a family later. Your 20s should be for you: spending time with friends, traveling, really learning who you are, and nurturing your hobbies and interests.

Having a baby is such a major life change and can honestly be a drag (I'm a mom to a toddler and it's exhausting and stressful). Wait until you are financially ready and mentally prepared to give yourself over 100% to a tiny little human who always depends on you.

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Tell him you're taking birth control. Don't make him feel like something is his fault.

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