He wanted me to move to the state he would be stationed in back in 2009 (January). We'd looked at houses and we're talking pretty seriously. My mom advised me not to go for fear that I knew no one out there and what if we'd had a fight and he threw me and my child out. He got mad (I still believe he is mad about it to this day and that's why he's treating our child and me this way … but I could be wrong) and said that we were through. That'd we'd ONLY be friends and nothing more. So when he came stateside in March we weren't suppose to meet up. Our love was much too powerful for all that and two hours after landing he was at my door. Spent five straight days with us. Still trying to get me to come to his based state. I again, said no. It was the hardest thing I EVER did. I wanted to say yes SOOOOO bad!! But I knew my mother was right. He left after a brief 10 day stay. 

Two weeks and 3 days later he was married. To someone he met in a bar. I still say it was a revenge marriage. She found out she was pregnant (I believe that's why he married her) and 6 days after the "wedding" (courthouse style - not dogging on it just personifies this particular marriage) he found out his new wife was already six weeks along. Instead of leaving he stayed. She wanted him to adopt the baby and he said no. So she placed it for adoption. Then three months later she was pregnant again. He got deployed, she cheated multiple times with multiple people. Moved a man into his house. Got pregnant by said man. Sold all his stuff down to the silverware, aborted two children, neglected the child and animals they had, got arrested, went to court,, the list goes on. Then came home and divorced her. He has a baby by this woman. His ex wife. It is said that the child is not biologically his but he says no matter what the circumstances the child is his.