Am I expecting too much??

I'm just curious if I am overreacting or expecting too much too soon from my boyfriend. So we have been together for almost 3 years now and we just moved in together 6 months ago. I didn't want to move in with him until we were engaged or even married just because of my personal beliefs. We ended up moving in together due to extenuating circumstances and I would make the same choice if I were to choose again but it still kills me that we aren't anywhere closer to being engaged let alone married. How do I come to terms with this without having some sort of hard feelings? I'm so ready to be married, he says he wants to be married someday but not now.