Can I be in the mom club

I feel like being a mom is a VIP club I cant get in to. The moms I know laugh about mom jokes, tag each other in mom articles that only moms can relate to and what I find extra annoying is I have one friend that talks to me like "oh my god Im so tired I never get a break YOU dont know what its like". I want to say uhh hello I'm a 33 year old grown woman just because I dont have one yet doesn't mean I dont know what it's like! Ughh and I can feel my stupid period coming! Wahhhhhhh ?