So my friend got married earlier this month and I was extremely hurt and offended because I was not in her wedding party. We have been best friends since 2008, were awesome roommates for 2 years, had talked at length about how I'd be her maid of honor and, to top it off, I've known her husband since elementary school. She had like 5 friends from her current classes as bridesmaids/maid of honor as well as sisters. My role in the wedding? I was asked to start the slideshow, which I couldn't even do because someone at the venue had to hook it up and run it.