I really want a child. And he isnt helping

He doesnt want to start ttc but yet he makes off beat jokes when we hang out with our close friends with a child he will joke around and say it's his baby or when i was holding the little cutie the other day he came up behind me and jokingly said this is our baby now. Idk ig im confused as to why he doesnt wanna try but yet he makes the jokes. It makes me have baby fever even more.