emotionally drained & confused

So the father of my child continues to tell me he's not ready he doesn't want to be a dad & we don't need this & he wants me to go through with an abortion. I'm only 5 weeks & I haven't seen my doctor or my baby yet because they wait until 8-10 weeks to see you. My question is has anyone ever been through this before? Does he come around or you were completely alone like I feel right now? 😢😢😢 I can't tell if he 100% means it or not or if he's afraid of me having a miscarriage because the girl he got pregnant before we started talking again had a miscarriage but she never had an ultrasound or anything so does a heartbeat & seeing the baby change things or should I just take it how it is now & what he's showing me now?