Okay so me and my SO have Been together for 2 years and we've known each other ever since I was 8(I'm 19 now he's 23). His parents don't want us being together because they think I'm too young so I've been a secret for 2 years. We still go on dates, I've met his friends his coworkers all that jazz, just not the family. Lately I've been seeing a lot of my friends get married and have babies and it makes me want that life. He says he wants to have a good job before he proposes and he's ready for all that stuff too, he just doesn't want us struggling. We're kinda poor right now and trying to save up to move out. But Lately he's been hitting me. To the extent to where he's broken my car window because I wouldn't let it down, he's choked me to where I threw up, gave me a black eye,