Strip club question's?!

So me and my bf of 7 years have talked about going to a strip club or just him going. He told me he's to afraid and when I asked why? He said because he's to afraid to get a boner because he'd be turned on(out of fear of them getting weirded out); I told him it's OK to be turned on, but don't expect to come home and have sex with me that he can just rub one out on his own. He says he prefer's me too go with him cause he'd want to watch me get lap dances.

So my question's are...

*Is it OK for men to get Boner's? Do they except them?

*Should I give it a try and go with him?

*Is it wrong of me to tell him it's ok to be turned on but I won't have sex with him after?