Hi all, not sure what to do. I found out on Friday I was expecting baby no 3, 9 months after having my youngest.  It was totally unexpected as we were using protection etc but obviously at some point something's gone a miss.  My partner was shocked but not unhappy then started saying that he hopes it's a girl as we have 2 boys.  He was a bit emotional and told his dad, his dad has hit the roof and now my partner has said we can't financially afford another baby, we haven't got room etc and that I should book an appointment for an abortion.  I have never felt so torn, hurt, broken, emotionally drained all in 48 hours.  I don't know how I feel yet but feeling already backed into a corner xx