Just random and venting.

We have never really prevented other than pulling out but this is cycle 3 of actually TTC.  I am approximately 11DPO. I haven't been temping or doing OPK's. I work two jobs at the moment. One just to be financially stable and the other just for extra baby money. 
So.. Shame on me that I dont temp or or do OPK's.
BUT, if we do not get a BFP this cycle then our next step will be Preseed. And because I don't temp or do OPK's and don't 100% know when I ovulated, then I have already informed my husband that we will be BD every other day next cycle no matter what. 
I need a BFP!!!