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Question

I feel that I'm ready to have kids, Iv wanted to be a mum since I was younger... However my boyfriend has changed my mind! In the beginning of our relationship he had told me that he wanted to have kids and wanted a family (something that had drawn me to him) but now he says that he doesn't want to have kids nor have a family (get married ect. Ect.) yet he has insisted that he wants us to live together. I'm extremely confused on what I should do, Should I stay with him and continue to feel that I'm not going to get what I want in life? I love my boyfriend more than anything but I do feel that I'm being strung along because he is afraid of being alone...

Answer

Ask him gently why he's changed his mind because men hate failing and if he feels he'll be a failure of a father, he'll talk himself out of it. You need to let him know that marriage and children are a massive priority for you and if he doesn't agree with you then you've got some thinking to do. You alone need to make this decision about whether or not this is a major issue for you and how to go about it.

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That's a MAJOR difference in ideals. You have to decide now what you want more: a marriage and family, or him (the guy you're with now). Because he most likely will not change his mind, so continuing this relationship will most likely end in a lot of hurt.

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