Am I overreacting?

Question

I lost my first child at 7weeks pregnant. This was back in march. He/she was supposed to be due the 30th of October. I've been down lately crying a lot and hating myself and my body bc I'm a women, the most important thing I should be able to do I have failed miserably at. I feel like it's my fault. I should have ate healthier. I should have been more careful. I shouldn't have weighed as much as I did. Am I overreacting???

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No, not at all. My daughters due date is November 3rd, she was born sleeping on July 9th at 22 weeks and 6 days. As her due date nears I am dreading it, but I also found out I am pregnant with her little brother or sister so it makes it a little easier. I always blame myself and think "what if" even though what my daughter had is not possibly caused by anything, it's happens. Try not to beat yourself up, stay strong momma 💜🎀

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I lost my baby at six weeks; it was a missed miscarriage so we tried to wait it out and had to get a D&C at "thirteen weeks". It's so hard to forgive yourself and your body after something like this... please allow yourself time to grieve, even now. Hating yourself and your body deepens the pain (trust me, I know). I'm dreading what would have been my baby's due date, so I send you love and all the strength I have to spare. I'm sure you are a strong, kind-hearted woman and I hope if you choose to try again and conceive, your rainbow baby grows perfect and healthy. <3

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I'm so sorry. I am currently having my second miscarriage and I completely understand where you are coming from. My thoughts are with you.❤️

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No, but take a deep breath and know there is a greater plan. You are not alone and remember always to be kind to yourself as best you can. 😘😘

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I know what you mean that you feel you did something wrong but you have to keep faith that God has a plan for you and the babies that weren't able to grow properly or whatever the case may have been. Tons of things could have gone wrong. It was something you honestly didn't have control over. It took me sometime to understand and grasp it as well. So I know your exact feelings. It'll all be okay in the long run. You'll get your rainbow baby sooner than you think. Just pray and keep your head up. God always puts rainbows at the end of the storm 💜💜💜

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Thank you

Am I overreacting?

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