STD's

Sorry I'm about talk about this but this is not something we can avoid! My cousin who is 20 is going through this and Idk how to help her out. She found out she had gotten chlamydia and it went away with the medicine they gave her. She found out by blood work. Then she went to obgyn and she got her Pap smear  they asked if she wanted to get tested for stds she didn't think she needed one but she said ok. She found out she has hpv! 😞she only slept with two different guys without a condom. We are thinking her boyfriend was the one who gave her hpv. We don't know how to ask him to get tested he knows what she has but doesn't want get tested. What do you all think? Please don't judge! It happeneds! She isn't a slut!! 😟it's just her luck! We also have more questions!