Ok so my fiance's ex is a impossible person to deal with. She is what I like to think of as a narcissist. She does things out of hate and only cares about herself. My SO just went to court ( mind you, he's paid her child support since he left her a year ago..... every month almost 700.00 for one kid, one kid!) Well they made him pay 500 now. So she shit herself but now she's keeping his kid from him. He's a good father and doesn't deserve that. Well, she's not legal. She may decided to run. I'm not sure. I told him to get a lawyer before it's too late and get custody of his kid so she can't do this to him, but I'm afraid he won't listen. The mother is irresponsible and childish. She talks bad about him to his daughter bc she wants him to feel guilty for not living her so she makes her daughter guilt him. She's manipulative. I can't stand her. He came here legally, but his visa ran out. So I feel like she shitted herself thru dss hoping that he wouldn't pay so she can lock him up and have him deported back to his country. She made the comment she doesn't want him around bc he's not with her anymore(again, always about her...😒) That won't happen bc he will pay, but it's how I feel. Also I don't associate with her or talk about her to anyone and I came across her Facebook page and she is saying I'm doing stuff to her and that she's a better mother than me, blah, blah blah and I better not fuck with her crap. I'm sitting here thinking in my head, " ok this bitch is crazy...." I don't know why she's acting like this or hurting her child because it's wrong. I can personally take the bullshit and disregard her drama when it comes to being a bitch to me, but not when her sorry ass descions effect his daughter. That's when I draw the line. What can I do? Mind you, she's illegal...I feel they typically get away with more shit bc of that. I can say that bc my two other boys their father was and I haven't seen child support in 9 years. So....it's not being racist, it's just realness. I want her to get a dose of reality and feel what she does to him and see how she likes it. Maybe it would make her grow up a little. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.... I don't want his daughter growing up in that kind of dysfunction.