What would you do?

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Ive been with my current husband for 6 years, have 2 daughters together and 24 weeks pregnant with the 3rd,, had the pregnancy niggles....hes upto no good!! So coz im me n have to get to the bottom of things i went a snooping,, only to find hes on friggin Tinder!!!!! (For those that don't kno, Tinder is a dating site) i feel like i need to just beat the living daylights outa him n i prob would if I didnt have a bump to contend with too,,  this is not the first time hes done this only it wasnt tinder last time,,, advice ladies?

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Personally if he's done it before I'd just leave. I know it seems like you'd be throwing a lot away but he did it before and he's doing it again then he's just gonna continue to keep doing it

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You have 2 babies and 1 on the way that you have to explain this to sooner or later! Do you want them growing up thinking that this is okay?
I know it's hard..but you know what you have to do! It not the first or second time, its only what has been exposed or brought to light. If you keep taking him back, he will never change and you'll never get what you fully deserve as well as your kids b/c you'll always be focused on what he's doing behind your back.

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Yes, you have kids together but in my opinion, if you stay with him, you're teaching your kids that what he's doing is okay

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You shouldn't be stressing with the baby, but you should talk about it. Y'all have been together long enough to be able to talk about it and work through problems.

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Honestly it's a tough situation. If he's got a track record of doing this; even once you confront him, I'm sure it will still continue to do so. It's a lot of history 6 years and 2.5 kids. Maybe seek counseling first. I would hate for us to tell you to leave him and you end up in Dire straits due to poor advice. If you left him how would you handle that living situation, and still provide for the kids. Divorce alimony child support don't even cover enough to support a family. Even if you get the house. And custody. It's hard on the kids not to mention yourself. Don't make any decision while you are emotional.sad or mad etc.  Sometimes we feel one way while we are upset but once we calm down and outweigh the pros and cons of the situation, you may decide something else and it's too late to fix it. Take some time to think things through before you decide. I hope things get better.

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