I need advice please ..

So I'm 21, and Never been to a gynecologist.. Lost my virginity when I was 16, (without my consent) had sex with someone when I was 18 only a couple of times (with a bf I had at that time). Now I've been with my partner for 2 1/2 years, recently got married on July, and of course I've been sexually active with him but I've never ever been to a gynecologist. I  guess I could say I'm nervous but the truth is I don't even know why.. I'm not that comfortable with someone else seeing my lady parts but I know I have to make an appointment.. I just don't feel ready.. could any of you give me any advice? 😳