husband rant
I realize I'm going to sound cold hearted, but my husband wants to know why I seem mad at him for being sick. He has a low fever, body aches...possibly the flu. Sunday was his only day off. That's the only day he spends more than maybe 5-10 minutes with our daughter. He wanted to take her to his parents by himself because he hasn't had the opportunity to take her out and really get to know her. Obviously when he woke up with a fever, that plan changed.
He's been resting in bed all day while I disinfected everything he touched or came across. I've also been playing with, feeding, changing, and comforting our 2 month old daughter.
I'm annoyed because I had major surgery (c section) and he was 0 help. I was still the only one comforting her day and night. I had to just deal with the recovery pain because if I took the medicine, it would be too difficult to get up at night. Not only that, but he was annoyed by her getting up so much at night and crying that I moved her and myself into the living room at night. Not even a thank you. Our daughter cries when not being held almost of the time, so there are days where I can't even shower or eat more than a bite or two of a granola bar. I get that he works 70-80 hours/week in construction and it's tough, but I'm having a really hard time caring about his little flu that he has going on. I'm definitely resenting him for all of the rest he's getting from it. And I realize that makes me sound like a cold bitch.
Ok, rant over. Thanks.
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