sorry I have to vent a little

Between my mother & my mother in law, I can't stand the constant bickering over everything that has to deal with my baby because they don't like something or something the other one said. They make me wish I wasn't pregnant. I think I'm deciding to turn this all into a secret. Not telling them anything anymore. Husbands mom wants to be controlling over everything, my mom hates his mom so always complains. I don't even want to have a baby shower because I know one of them will turn it into a train wreck.. I just want to cry they stress me out so much. It's about me & my baby. Not them knowing the gender first, not them always raining on my parade if I tell them something that excites me. I'm over everything!