I've been having issues with my OB not taking the time to answer my questions (this is my first baby too) and she is causing me to lose trust in her ability to take care of me and baby. Today was my 38 week check up and I wanted to talk to her about my delivery. She said we would discuss it at my next appointment (which is also my very last appt) and this has been her attitude the last 8 appts. She refuses to sit down with me and have a conversation.

I am starting to feel extremely depressed about my delivery. I don't feel confident about my doctor, I don't feel confident about delivering (because I still have no answers from my actual doctor), and I feel like I'm completely in the dark.

Today I had to demand she stopped as she tried to walk out of the room, and had to say "I need to ask you something!!" And she wouldn't sit back down. She just stood there and barely answered me just saying let's talk next week. What if there is not an appt next week? What if I go into labor before then and I'm just completely clueless?!

There are three other doctors in her practice, one who has a nearly free schedule for november and is one of the best doctors there. Would it be so bad to ask him to take me on?