Virginity.
Recently, I saw a post talking about virginity. One girl's comment said something along the lines of "Girls that care about their virginity are basically saying that they aren't worth more than their vaginas."
And that just made me think... Really? That's one of the most judgmental and disrespectful things I've ever heard. It's the equivalent to saying "girls who don't care about their virginity are basically saying that their body is worthless."
You can't say something like that about someone else's self-worth. Everyone views virginity and sex differently. Some people are very scared of sex and want to wait for the right person. Some people think that sex is very meaningful, and they don't want to have their first time with just anyone. How is that thinking you aren't with more than your vagina??? And then there are some people that make no emotional connection with sex. And there are people that are always wanting to have sex. Literally everyone is different and just because someone isn't like you, or doesn't view sex and/or virginity the way you do, doesn't mean that they're worth any less or that they see themselves as being worth any less.
I almost feel like people are pushing the anti-slut-shaming campaign so hard, that they've begun to feel like it's okay to shame girls that aren't as open with their bodies. Neither one is okay. Just let people live how they see fit. We girls have to stick together and don't judge one another so much. As long as you're safe and happy, why should anyone else care?
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