Porn or cheating? When suddenly your husband is completely different during sex!!!

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My husband & I always had a good sex life, I know he watches porn.. the last couple of months he is totally different when having sex.. treating me more like an object.. . Deep throat, I mean like where it's completely down my throat, anal sex, more than ever, wants his ass licked, licks mine & fingers my ass!!! I just have this feeling something is off..

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Maybe he just likes this stuff and is finally comfortable and confident enough to do it

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I wouldn't say cheating. Surely if he was cheating it would be the opposite, he wouldn't wanna bother having sex much. I don't think porn is a problem in a relationship  unless it was affecting your sex life in a negative way. I don't think it's too bad if he's learning these things and wanting to try them with you because he's not watching these things and completely blocking you out sexually. If your uncomfortable with it though just talk to him. Be honest about your feelings and concerns

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How old is he? I know my husband went through a freaky phase at one point and a few years later I went through the same thing. I call it the "dirty thirties" where you're not afraid to try new things and to discover what you like.

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If you don't want to do those thing tell him that. I'm sure he's just trying new things with you which is great. But if you don't want to deep throat every time you give head tell him no. If you don't want him in your ass tell him no.

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He is probly just watching porn and taking ideas from it to spice up your sex life I'd think it was a good thing

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Ok the rest of the people in the comments are being doofuses. Our society, especially young people, puts a positive value on kink because we're all super exposed to porn, and all that stuff has been normalized. That does NOT mean that you have to be ok with it. And if he's bringing ideas from porn into your relationship, that doesn't seem healthy and I'm sure it would bother me too. You should talk to him, set boundaries, make sure your sex life is good for both of you regardless of what his fetish is at the moment.

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Talk to him first. Let him know how it makes you feel then go from there.

Porn or cheating? When suddenly your husband is completely different during sex!!!

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