Sex starved wife

Hey Y'all.  This is my first year of marriage.  We got married real fast. One of my main concerns was that we had sex daily.  Things were great until my step son moved in with us.  The last time we had sex was on the 21st.  That lasted for a good 30seconda. I just woke my husband up, trying to get a little action.  He wouldn't budge, so I started to play with myself.  Well he then turned over and yelled at me.  It's even worse for the past week I've been having dreams about my ex, who I had a very amazing sex life with. 
I'm really bummed out and incredibly sexually frustrated. we recently moved to a new city where I know no one.