Bad breakup..

I need tips or advise on how to get through a bad breakup with my husband, we are officially filing for divorce and although he was cruel to me he wasn't always like that cause when I first met him he came across as this lovely caring man and that is the person I stupidly see myself leaving not this abuser who made my life hell. Sad I know.

Is there anything I can maybe do to help myself get over but and mostly to get over HIM? we had been dating for over a year and technically been married for 7 months, he is really my first proper everything and its the longest I've ever ever been with a guy too! we did so much together and even lived with each other.

How do I get through it ?

I'm 29+6 pregnant with his son also , we live in different countries.