Porn?

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So my boyfriend occasionally watches porn on his phone. Is it wrong for me to get a little upset about it. It makes ME feel like I am not enough for him and he wants to masturbate to women who have what I don't. Idk I need advice please, because I'm tired of fighting with him about it.

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The way i look at it i would rather my SO watch porn than cheat on me

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Its totally okay for him to watch porn maybe u should try watching it with him so you guys don't have to fight about it as much.  Just see what it is that he likes and try it out.

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I feel the exact same way. I think it's disrespectful and I hate it.

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Maybe ask him why he does it even though you are having sex (which I assume you are or are thinking about). It's not all that bad. Maybe try to spice things up in the bedroom! My boyfriend and I love to role play now, it's sexy and fun, and I think it can really help you learn more about what your partner likes and dislikes. Explore more in your sex life! I hope this helps, and try not to worry!

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We watch together. : ) im always the one who gets caught with it lol

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Honestly if I had access to sex with my man I would never watch porn, its  nasty but as a single lady sometime I need it to take me where I'm going okay lol. Anyway, I would be upset. I'm a jealous gf. I don't think you're wrong for that. Ask him what you could do to help him not need to watch porn. If you can't do anything I would just accept that as his problem. The question you ask yourself is, can you deal with it being apart of your relationship?

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Talk to him about it, express how you feel.

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I recently caught my bf watching porn on my OWN phone. I confronted him about it because I was upset about it and he just says 'lads do it sometimes whether they're with someone or not'. I was genuinely hurt while he just laughs about it.

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I tell my husband just don't watch it if I'm around.  I let him make a video so he can watch me and now he almost never watches porn.

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I never watched porn until he showed me. And I was into it and we will sometimes watch it together but ever since we heard a sermon at church talking about it being an addiction and cheapens your SO. I now see it differently. I stopped and I found out that he still watched it. It bothered me so I confronted him about it. Told him that it belittles me as a woman and in the end hurts me. He got mad saying invasion of pricacy and it's not like he's cheating. But I considered it cheating. He's lusting after another woman and getting off on another woman. So after the screaming and fighting he finally realized and pulled his head out of his ass that in the end I was the one that it hurt. So he stopped. Eventually we both get the urge to have fun and watch. But we remember what matters and that is ourselves to make da higher happy. Good luck in finding that middle ground.

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