Am I overreacting?

Today, I had an OB appointment at 2 in the afternoon. Unfortunately, my fiancé is stationed overseas so at each appointment, he just FaceTimes me to be a part of it as much as he can and I appreciate that very much. I always let him know way before the day/time of my appointments. However, today he had Duty (so they expected him to stay at work a little later). I didn't mind because work is work, but he texted me at 1:45 asking me what his number was, and I just replied with "For?" And it did not deliver. I called him because it was nearing the time of my appointment and no answer. I texted him again, and it was still not delivering. I got upset because he just asked me for his own number and then vanished and now he's about to miss our ultrasound? Anyways, I call the office to let them know I need to reschedule because I know that he wants to be a part of all of my appointments but for some reason, was not letting me know what was going on. He calls me at 2:40 asking me where I was, etc. I asked him the same question and also asked why he didn't answer my calls. He told me he sped home and that his phone was "acting up." I was just upset and disappointed because he could have told me he was leaving work instead of asking me for his number which when I asked why he did that, he told me he had to write it down in case they call him back in for Duty. 
Second part of story: Recently, he has also been acting very snappy. Like, he will get mad at me and raise his voice over something that is not my fault. I've been asking him what's wrong, telling him he can talk to me, and that I'm here for him... Even though I am upset myself that he continues to raise his voice at me. He tells me he doesn't wanna talk and that he just wants to go to bed. I tell him if nothing is the problem, then please don't get mad at me. Also, he has been telling me to start the baby registry so we can have the baby shower in December when he comes back on leave to visit for 2 weeks. I will ask him questions about it (i.e., what he likes, what other products I should add, what day specifically do we want the shower, etc.) and he just doesn't seem like he cares at all. I tell him I just want him to be a part of it just as much as I am, and he's like "yeah yeah. It's only the beginning of November." Idk, I've just been really disappointed and overall upset at the way he's been treating me and acting towards our relationship. 😔

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