How should I tell my boyfriend I think he should pay for me?😅🤔

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How should I tell my boyfriend he should pay for me?😂🤔 Like we're in high school, we both play sports, we both really don't have time for jobs right now, and dating isn't cheap I get it... But we've been dating for about 3 months and I've been paying for everything when we go out like my food and stuff, not trying to be bitchy about it but he's never even offered to pay🤐 Help🙆🏾‼️‼️

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I'm married and I buy my own food, pay for dates, and I spoil my husband. It's not a "isnt that what boys are supposed to do" that's what both of you should do for each other. 50/50. And you don't need tons of money for a date. Work with what you got. As far as asking him to pay. Plan ahead and tell him Exactly how you wrote it. You've been paying and now you'd like for him to treat you.

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If you're paying for his food and stuff too, I'd let him know you think it should be 50/50 and he should treat you out sometimes. As for regularly dating, you should always pay 50/50 or at least offer. Your time is not more important than his, and when you expect a man to pay for you that's what you're saying. If he wants to treat you, he will. If you want to treat him, do it. But it is nobodies responsibility to pay for the other.

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Don't pay for him and the both of you pay for yourselves unless one of you is feeling exceptionally generous.

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Say you should split the bill. Otherwise, you are just putting him in the same stressful situation you are in now

How should I tell my boyfriend I think he should pay for me?😅🤔

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