Should I break up???

Question

Okay so me and my SO been together for 2 yrs we recently had a baby in April but unfortenaly she passed away 2 days later now I've read that most of couples will have separate ways after the loss of a baby but I was determined to work it out!!!
For about a few months we been fighting almost everyday for stupid things!!!!
I been trying to work it out but I don feel happy anymore I should say he is a great guy does everything for me and for a long time I thought it was me just being depressed but now I just think that it is our relationship !!
We been ttc but I been avoiding intercourse with him since idk if that's the best choice for me right now!!!
Last night he left to spend New Years with his family and I didn't go got mad and he ended up coming home because he said that was not his new year resolution to spend it away from me but stillwe didn't interact let alone be intimate!!!
Just don't know what to do........

Answer

3 and a half years ago my husband (who was my boyfriendat the time) and I also lost a child. I hated him. Blamed him. I hated myself. Blamed myself. I hated God. Blamed God. I yelled, I cried, I prayed, I cried, I slept, I cried, I drank, I cried. We argued non-stop. It was lethal but we swore we'd work it out. After a year of "working it out" we finally broke up. And after three months of separation, time alone, time to self heal and see our lives without one another we got back together.

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He came back last night.! He loves you but you two have to make the effort.! Both of you have put work into the relationship. You both had a loss and that can make things rough. Maybe you two should go on a couples get away. Just you two.! Not ttc, just having fun as a young couple. You two need to reconnect. Don't give up hun.! Keep trying and get him to try too.! Maybe surprise him by being extra sexy and dress up for him and you guys go out for dancing and drinks.! That's a start

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Did a little therapy...and here we are, 2 years married on the 5th. It's a topic of conversation sometimes and it will always hurt but we've made it through. We emotionally support one another and if anything, we love each other more and understand each other more. Our relationship has grown so much. And 3 and half years later we're ttc. You'll be okay. I promise. And when you're not, scream and cry. It's okay to feel hurt. Get one good friend to talk to or who went through the same thing, it helps a lot.

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I would try some counseling

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Whether or not you break up with him, your the only one that can make that decision. Sit down and talk with him. That's the only way to see if he's going to be willing to put in the effort to try to make things work.

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