any one else over people opinions ?

Question

I'm 33 weeks and have made the decision that I don't want an epidural . I don't want any more added risks and I'm scared of any bad outcomes that come with an epidural especially seeing as I already have a bad back. 
I casually expressed this to a family member who just recently had a baby and now she won't stop texting me basically telling me how stupid I am for not getting one and telling me that labor will be the most painful thing on earth. She's also trying to tell me that there are no risks in getting an epidural and that I'm just making shit up. 
I'm so tired of constantly being told I'm making all of the wrong decisions when it comes to my baby especially when she isn't even hear yet!!!! 
I have tried to end the conversation as politely as possible but she won't stop and I don't know how much longer I can hold out on cussing her out.

Answer

Ive told so many people i wish to go all natural with my son and they all call me crazy and say i wont go through with it. Use it as motivation to do what youve set out to then rub it in their face

Answer

Don't FUCKEN listen to anyone  that tells you you can't do it without it girl! 
Everyone would tell me that and I was set on not having NO epi with my first. 
I had my first at 36weeks no epidural needed! 
They supposedly say epidural causes back pain later on or even winter time. My sister has told me she has it(she now has 4kids)

Answer

Other people's opinions are annoying Yeah. But you'll have to deal with them for the rest of your life! I would take it as practice and just say "thanks for the info. I'll think about it." and she'll probably (hopefully) leave you alone

Answer

Just say you respect her opinion but you won't discuss this matter anymore, that you made up your mind. And that when she's stalking you with this all the time, she's making you insecure. Be honest without being rude, she won't keep bothering you 😊

Good luck with labour and your baby!

Answer

I'm to the point now where I just wanna cuss people out ! Stop telling me what I can't do !! I'm using it as motivation as well because when I have him I promise on everything I love I'm going to throw it in their face lol

any one else over people opinions ?

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey