What would you do,

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Hello I'm a young mom with two kids a one year old and a 1 month old, and I'm very frustrated and tired. I haven't had a break since I had my baby he'll be two months on the 21st of this month. I neve get to take myself out or do anything nice for myself, because nobody ever ask do I need a break or anything even their dad doesn't ask or his family neither does mine ! I need advice please

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You said nobody ever asks so can you not ask them? I'm sure if you explained how you felt and that you needed a break someone could babysit for an hour or so?

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I would let your family members know that you need a break.they probably don't know how bad you need it.

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Tell your SO take the baby, I'm going out. He's a parent too and I'm sure capable of watching the baby for an hour or two.

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Have you pushed away help in the past, maybe they don't want to be turned away and are waiting to be asked? I am sort of like that. People rarely ask to help, other than my husband.  However, I still know there are a handful (if not more) of people I could ask to help without hesitation. It was hard at first, but people have been thankful and more than happy when I do ask! Also, there are people that get upset if you ask others before them!! 
What I'm trying to say is just because they haven't asked, doesn't mean they don't want to or aren't willing to!

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Ask someone to babysit for you.

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I'm a young mom, my first is 1 year (17 months) my second is 1 month, will be 2months 27th. 
I totally understand your frustration. It's hard!!   Maybe you could ask baby's father (or anyone you trust) to watch them, maybe he doesn't see how frustrating it is for you.. don't be afraid to ask for help.

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I would ask for a break , they won't know you need a break unless you ask them for one.

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