What would you do,

Hello I'm a young mom with two kids a one year old and a 1 month old, and I'm very frustrated and tired. I haven't had a break since I had my baby he'll be two months on the 21st of this month. I neve get to take myself out or do anything nice for myself, because nobody ever ask do I need a break or anything even their dad doesn't ask or his family neither does mine ! I need advice please