I'll be honest and say I considered doing just that to my wife (not cheating. Just doing the AI). But I guess the difference is, she wants kids, she's just so disgusted with the whole process that I was afraid I'd have to do it secretly. Although if she decided she didn't want kids from the start, I wouldn't have continued the relationship. Becoming a mom is a dream for me and I couldn't be with someone who would deny me that. So I empathize with the pregnant girl in your senario, but it's not how she should have done things. I would fully expect my wife to leave me had I done that and she didn't want kids.