I am almost 2 weeks postpartum and have been staying with my boyfriend and his family with our child during the weekends I go home during the week.. my mother has been giving me shit about going back and forth with that baby.. she often says I'm not doing the right thing for my child by coming and going. I've mentioned to her many times that I'm not taking my newborn out in public places or other people homes due to the fact she is too little and I don't want her to catch any germs.. but my mother says I need to make a decision on where I'm going to live. I'm torn because I love spending time with my bf and our little family but I refuse to live in his home with his dad.. just because I feel i wouldn't be comfortable. I know all this is just temporary until we get our own place but my mother and bf both are. Bugging for me to stay with them for the time being. Help I am a FTM am I doing the wrong thing by going back and forth?