Birth control hell!

OK so I'm sure I'm not the only one who has had issues with birth control, but I am sick and tired of being the 10 or 5 percent for all the options. I was on the pills to begin with and got pregnant the moment I forgot. After I had my two handsome babies I went on nexplanon for 11 months, where I had my period for months at a time. I was constantly needing to go to the doctors for blood work. And now I'm on the depo shot and in December it'll be a year that I've been on it. And of course I've had my period for about three weeks now and it happens every time, and maybe I get a one to two week at most break before I get my period again. Has anyone else gone through this and have any advice? I'm just pretty much at my breaking point.