HELP: How to Tell Your Boyfriend You Don't Get Wet Enough??

Question

I'm dating this new guy and everything is going really well. Except for a tiny thing with our sex. No matter how turned on I am, I just don't get wet enough for sex to be comfortable. I have to give him sloppy head ever 10 min. Even half my vagina is SO swollen every time after. I've never had a problem getting wet before, so I'm really confused. It's something not to be ignored, but I don't know how to tell my boyfriend. "I don't get wet enough" sounds like I'm not turned on by him, which I totally am!!! Like we just had sex and I was hornier than I've ever been with him and I was still bone dry. I'm super embarrassed about it. WHAT DO I DO?

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Women's arousal is already complicated so it's okay to trust that he understands that it's got nothing to do with him. It could be anything so I would just tell him that, and mention using lubricant or something you think could help

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Try some lube.
But yeah. Communicate with him and tell him what's going on. I've had to reassure my fiancé a few times when I'm not wet enough that I'm turned on but just not wet enough.

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See a dr. May be some sort of physiological reason.

If you check out fine, get some lubricant and incorporate into some sexy foreplay! And tell him, just like you told us. That you still wanna jump his bones, but your body won't cooperate.

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LUBE!!!!

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Maybe just try some lube? Idk if telling him would help the sitation since there isnt much he can do about it.

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Just be honest and be real! Communication honey is the key

HELP: How to Tell Your Boyfriend You Don't Get Wet Enough??

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