HELP! Where are my type A's?

Question

I'm sure everyone here has heard " just have fun with it! Don't worry about it. When you stop worrying is when it will happen" 
Well I am a very type A person. I LOVE to make lists and schedule and track. That IS what relaxes me. But I keep getting comments like " no wonder you're not pregnant yet" and " you need to stop planning if you ever want to get pregnant" it kinda hurts to hear that. Of course I WANT to be pregnant! I wanna know if there is anyone out there like me?

Answer

Shannon! If I hear one more person say the exact same things they're saying to you, I'm really scared I'm gonna say the first thing that comes to my mind instead of my usual smiling, nodding and saying "you're probably right...". I don't know if you feel this way, but I'm kind of starting to regret being open about my difficulties getting pregnant and my miscarriage, because although I'm happy not to carry these worries alone, I'm getting pretty burnt out on having to hear everyone else's own experience about how they got drunk then got pregnant, all their opinions and their rampant criticisms about how im not getting prego bc im tracking my cycle temps/opks, even though I'm doing so mainly so when I go to the fertility specialist in January I'll have +3 months of solid data to show him instead of going to my first appt and being like "I'm not sure when I ovulate?! Oh I think my cycles are normal..." then have him tell me to track this stuff for 3 months then come back! Wow this response ended up way longer than intended, hopefully this reassures you I absolutely know how you feel and am really over it!!

HELP! Where are my type A's?

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