am I being unreasonable?

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I'm 25, married, have a house and good career. I have a two year old and newborn. I refuse to go back to birth control because I just don't like it. My husband refuses a vasectomy because he's too scared. I get it. But I also do not want to get tied. So we're basically relying on condoms. Is this safe enough??  We're very good with using them correctly..

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You should be fine. Hell, my husband and I just use the pullout method and never got pregnant in 4 years until we actually started trying.

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Which type of birth control are you referring to that you don't like and why? I've had adverse affects myself with certain ones, however, that didn't make me turn away from them because it was a dosage issue.

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My husband and I have used condoms successfully for 8 years. I would never get my tubes tied, heard way too many stories of how badly it messes with hormones. Perhaps your husband will come around some day.

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Why not get a bulk pack of ovulation strips too so you know to be SUPER careful when its pos?

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As long as you use them properly, you should be fine!

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I refuse birth control too, vasectomy, and tubal. We use the pull out method and avoiding sex during ovulation times. I'm not worried at all about an accident. We have never had one before in our 7 yr relationship. It works for us and I don't see it as unreasonable

am I being unreasonable?

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