Am i being too all about my self

Ok please let me know if im wrong ive asked my baby father weeks ago to go to this appointment he missed all the other appointments because he claimed he was working this would be his first appointment so tonight his aunt passed i understand he wants to be with family but my appointment is only gonna last 45 minutes and he act like he cant go its always an excuse with him im tired i just feel like i dont even want him to be here now