So I'm 40 years old and I'm pregnant with my second child. My oldest is 18 and in college. So yes I'm starting over. I'm getting mixed reactions and some being down right rude. If I hear "girl better you than me" one more time I'm going to scream. I even had a family member say just pluck it out. Are you kidding me?! I was so pissed! This baby is not a mistake. God gave me this baby for a reason. Yes the baby is a surprise but I'm so happy. Why can't everyone else be happy? Had to get that off my chest! How are you dealing with negative reactions?