Boyfriend came in me without telling me?

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My boyfriend and I were having intercourse and he ALWAYS always pulls out. This time he didn't and just finished inside me and when I asked if he finished he said yeah he came on his hand. So a few seconds later I felt his sperm come out of me and it was a lot. I was furious. This happened on the 15th around 9pm. If I got pregnant would I be having symptoms by now? I also took the plan b pill the next day around 1pm. Am I just worrying too much? This never happened to me so I don't know what to expect and it's stressing me out. I know I should go on birth control or use a condom but I'm just irresponsible and I've been contemplating on getting on birth control once this whole thing blows over. :(

UPDATE: Just got my period!! I got it a couple days early. I've never been so glad 😭☺️

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If u took a plan b u should be okay. And to be really honest, your bf is a dick.

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You should be fine with the plan b, but pulling out is really just as bad as finishing inside sperm releases before the penis is all the way out and travels I'd definitely get on some birth control

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Well, you've taken plan b so you'll be alright. I think the real problem here is that you know you need to do more to protect yourself but haven't yet. Getting on the pill is just a really good way for you to be in control. It's an absolute schlep at first but you'll figure out a routine.

Also, you really need to have a talk with your boyfriend. It's not okay for him to be taking these kinds of liberties when he knows you'll be upset (which is why he lied)

Gone are the days when women were helpless. It's your body, you say what happens or doesn't.

Good luck! :) :)

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Plan B should be fine. Get on birth control and don't have sex raw. Not all the time a guy feels like interrupting his orgasm to pull out in enough time. I don't care how skilled he is. Sometimes it's just that good. Pull out methods aren't ever guaranteed. Please stop using it as birth control if you for sure don't want babies.

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This is precisely why pulling out isn't birth control. Since you took plan B, you'll likely be okay. Get on birth control and retest in two weeks.

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That was a real scum move on your boyfriend's part.... but since you took plan B you should be okay

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Don't be scared if your period is late! Trust me when I took it my period was 2 weeks late and I was freaking out lol

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You probably shouldn't be having sex if you're calling yourself irresponsible. No hate, just being honest. You should be okay with Plan B, but it would be too early to tell if you actually are pregnant regardless. Best of luck to you..

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If you took a plan b you should be fine

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Well the pull out method doesn't always worth either. Guys have pre cum that they don't feel coming out and it is enough to get you pregnant so I'd recommend birth control or condoms anyways.

Boyfriend came in me without telling me?

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