For the last month my husband and I have been trying for a baby. Today he told me we should stop trying, he says his reasons are because of money and the side work he does he won't be home to help me. Which I understand that would put more pressure on me what he's worried about. We also have children from other people, my daughters five his daughters seven both have joint custody. Our kids are gone on the exact same night so we have freedom for us time. and he's not sure if he wants to give that up. he also says the pressure that it would put on me to work full-time and raise three kids and take of five animals plus him being gone a lot. he doesn't think it's a good idea anymore. To the point I understand where he's coming from her yet it's still really hurts and I don't know how to tell him that it hurts I also kind I don't know what to feel or think.