I waited a very long time to give oral for the first time, even though I wasn't a virgin or anything, it just wasn't appealing to me at all; I could not bring myself to do it. Now I'm in a serious relationship, with the man I am more than likely going to marry, and a few months ago I finally did it. Now, due to the give and recieve rule I have never received oral. So you can understand my confusion when I tell you that I still have not received oral; even after giving a couple of times. When I finally brought it to his attention, he told me that I get VERY wet which is great for when we're having sex, but he doesn't wasn't to "drown in it". His reasoning being he does not expect me to swallow, which is true, because he doesn't want to either; with the excessive wetness he feels swallowing is inevitable. No questions really, just asking for any advice anyone has to give on the situation.