Masturbation

Are any of you trying to refrain from masturbating, instead waiting for your man? Is your man also doing so? How's it working for you? Surely not everyone is okay with it. Mu husband and I both struggle with it, but feel like we need to stop and turn to each other for our needs instead. So far it's going well for me.... very difficult as I have a much higher sex drive, but I have been strong. I'm not 100% sure about my husband. I think he has been masturbating, although I know he feels bad about it. Do any of you have success stories or advice? I DON'T want anyone telling me it's not a big deal... this is what we decided together, as husband and wife. I'm looking for people who also made this decision to chime in with their experiences, please!