Am I the only one???

So, I have to constantly beg my boyfriend for sex... Like every time I want to I have to beg him. We already established that is isn't because he likes me to beg. He says its because it'll ruin the fun when we're old and it's never spontaneous. But it's never spontaneous if I ask or not cause he never asks me, or it makes a move... does he just not want me anymore? :/ there's other things that make me feel this way too... but i just want to know if any other girl out there has to beg for it like I do because right now im just thinking, what kind of guy turns down sex that often???? It makes me feel so unwanted and unattractive...