To go or not to go??? Help!!!!

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The guy im seeing seems to be smitten by me, we've only been talking for like 3 months and for Xmas his gift to me was 2 plane tickets to Dubai in March. He is taking me to Dubai, we are going to stay in this beautiful hotel, he set up all these dates there, for skydiving, riding quads in the dessert, riding camels, dinners all this other stuff. I couldn't say no bc he set it all up already but I can't help wonder why is he doing all of this if I haven't even slept with him. He has never disrespected me or tried to sleep with me, he is a perfect gentleman, and makes plenty of money in New York City as a marketing director. If I go on this trip with him, im i expected to give it up? I told him already that when im ready i will sleep with him and not before and he said this trip has nothing to do with me sleeping with him. Would you go on the trip or decline it??? Idk what to do 😩😩😩😩

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To me I watched to many TV shows and a man or a women is nice then they turn deranged.  It sounds fishy to me as well now or days people are scary

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If you really like him and you feel like he genuinely likes you you should go!

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Heck no! No one does that for someone that they barely know. I would tell him that I couldn't accept such an expensive gift so early. It's not like you asked him for the trip, so any money that he wasted was because he was being presumptuous. He shouldn't have assumed that you would go. It seems odd..he could be dangerous!

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Sounds fishy right there so dont go

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If he is doing all these things for you and you haven't slept with him and have already told him that you will when you're ready, give him some credit. He sounds like a very patient and nice guy and if you've already asked about the trip leading to sex and he doesn't expect anything just go and have a great time. Stop stressing about the great guy you have!!

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Well it's in March. You have time to meet his friends/family and get to know him more. 
I don't mean for this to be rude or anything, but is he rich? Maybe this isn't all that crazy to him. 
But listen to your gut! If you get a bad feeling about it, don't go.

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It does sound crazy, i would be careful but thats how i meet my husband out first trip was supposed to be backpacking through europe but he couldnt get a passport in time we ended up in vegas (im from ks) in a expensive suite the. Off to utah for snowboarding and our second date was to hawaii

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I would first know more about the guy. There's no way I'd go somewhere with someone after only meeting them for 3 months, that's crazy. With all the things happening right now it's very not safe and Dubai? Yeah no thanks. Kind of sounds too good to be true, pleads be cautious.

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But follow your instincts if you feel like you shouldn't go listen to that gut feeling.

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First off, how old are you two?

To go or not to go??? Help!!!!

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