I need to vent

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I am BEYOND tired of being asked if our pregnancy was planned! I think its such a rude question to ask! It's like people feed off juicy gossip and want to know it it was an oops or something! 
We are not married but have been together ten years and YES this pregnancy was VERY planned, not an oops. 
Even though it was planned it is taking everything in me to not be rude when people ask that question!!!