I'm about to be 30 weeks with my unplanned baby girl and I'm already feeling the pressure to "try again, for a boy".

I feel like my baby girl is not appreciated for the perfect sweet little baby she already is and that somehow certain in-laws expect me to rush through the next 10-12 weeks to have her, the next 6+ weeks of healing and "just get to conceiving that boy already!" Like she's not good enough.

I wasn't even really prepared for her. We love her so much but we weren't ready and we've been scrambling to get ready but somehow I'm supposed to just jump right into another pregnancy and make another human being because they don't like her genitals?!?

I'm appalled and sickened and I just wanted to vent. :(