Guy friends wont come to baby shower

Im a annoyed . I have about 6 guy friends im really close with for years now,love their wives and gilfriends hubby said he wanted a joint baby shower which im cool with but when i told my friends they kicked up such a fuss said that was womems business and if hubby wanted a shower he can have a guys only one..i basically told them ur invited, we are having just the one, if u dont show up thats on you! ... still pissed at how stupid they are 😑